_sent_unpaid_order_notification
send_unpaid_order_notification
$meta_query = array( 'relation' => 'OR', array( 'key' => '_send_unpaid_order_notification', 'value' => 'yes', 'compare' => '!=', ), array( 'key' => '_send_unpaid_order_notification', 'compare' => 'NOT EXISTS', ), );